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Hey everyone, here's a mod contact post.

You can use it to talk to me, ask me things, let me know when you want something deleted and if there's arguments going on on the meme.
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Date: 2014-04-27 12:54 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Would it be possible to take the transfail prompt down now? It's been days, and it's just sitting there, being offensive and awful.

Policy on self-filling?

Date: 2014-04-27 10:35 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I was wondering what this kink meme's policy on self-filling is? As in, someone prompts someting then after a while the fic bunny is bugging them so much they end up writing a fic for their own prompt. Is posting that fic allowed or is it frowned upon?

Re: Policy on self-filling?

Date: 2014-04-27 11:01 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
People have done it before, no one has an issue with it! :)

From the Character Bashing thread

Date: 2014-05-07 05:07 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I appealed to you in the discussion thread, but because you mentioned the mod post specifically, and I don't want my request to go unnoticed, I'm repeating it here.

I respect your decision about the character bashing warnings, and I realize it is difficult to police everything. However, I think you need to reconsider this one:

http://bbcmusketeerskink.dreamwidth.org/1213.html?thread=1643197#cmt1643197

It has a TW for suicidal thoughts and actions, yes, but Porthos and Aramis apparently treat Athos "with total disgust" - enough to trigger that suicidal cycle in him, and then are blamed for this suicide attempt by Treville. That's beyond a misunderstanding.

How many scenarios in real life have a supportive friend or spouse being blamed for a person’s depression or suicide attempt? Unless bullying or harassment are involved... which if they are...

Out of character or not, this one needs an Emotional Abuse warning.

The potential triggers there go beyond Athos’s suicidal thoughts. And are why I think this particular prompt was the one that triggered and sparked the discussion.

A Pairing Week

Date: 2014-05-08 02:29 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Can we have a Athos/d`Artagnan slash week? with a fill-a-thon for this gorgeous couple?

Re: A Pairing Week

Date: 2014-05-08 10:23 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Oh god, can we please not?

Not unless there's a week for all the other pairings. Athos/d'Artagnan is not more important than every other ship in the fandom, ffs.

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Date: 2014-05-09 11:12 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Hello Mod! You're doing a great job running this place.

It may be a bit early to worry about, but with BBC America airing the show from next month, I wondered whether you'd had any thoughts about spoiler policy as we (hopefully) get new people arriving?

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Date: 2014-05-10 08:12 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Is there a way to search the delicious bookmark for unfilled prompts? I can't seem to find a tag for it.

I plan to try and fill some of the old unfilled ones, but I'd rather not have to go through pages and pages of old prompts trying to find the ones which haven't been filled yet.

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Date: 2014-05-12 12:52 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
http://bbcmusketeerskink.dreamwidth.org/774.html?thread=996358#cmt996358

While looking for things to fill, I found another of the character-bashing abuse prompts.

Prompt Freeze

Date: 2014-05-17 04:05 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Has the freeze ended now?, and are we going to continue putting prompts on rounds two or is there going to be a round three?, round two is small still compared with round one, but its Mods call

Re: Prompt Freeze

Date: 2014-05-17 04:53 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Not the mod, but my guess is the freeze would logically carry through the end of today and lift tomorrow.

Re: Prompt Freeze OP

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Date: 2014-05-18 02:34 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
http://bbcmusketeerskink.dreamwidth.org/1213.html?thread=1795517#cmt1795517
Please delete!

Date: 2014-05-18 05:01 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
On the free for all post, is underage still banned the way people wanted?

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Date: 2014-05-18 06:15 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Thanks for the thread without trigger warnings. It's nice to have a thread where you don't have to worry about what you say and how you say it.
From: (Anonymous)
Just a general question, since I understand the free for all post doesn't make trigger warnings compulsory on either prompts or fills:

Can we still post fills for prompts from the free for all to the regular fill post (in which case I imagine the fills would require warnings) or is there going to be another warning-free fill post as well?
From: (Anonymous)
Maybe either warnings, or 'CNTW' - choose not to warn?

So then people will either know what's there or know it's at their own risk, and everything's in the same place?

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Fic exchange

Date: 2014-06-02 08:48 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
What is the policy on fic exchanges, where one person offers to write a prompt for another in return for having one of their own prompts filled?.

Obviously not put about in stressful way that could make people feel pressured, just people making the offer to one another with it being optional?

Re: Fic exchange

Date: 2014-06-03 06:50 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Not the mod, obviously, but one problem I can see with this is that memes like this one have far more prompters than writers, making the odds pretty good that the person you'd be offering to swap fills with would not really be in a position to do so.

It would be like you and I both having unfilled art prompts, and you offering to fill mine if I filled yours. Trust me...anything I could come up with would be disappointing to you (though possibly with unintended but redeeming comedic value).

Date: 2014-06-04 11:44 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Is it considered okay to fill a prompt but with the characters all different genders, without asking the OP? Especially if it's a very unique headcanon universe?

-a person who is uncomfortable with this being a precedent

Date: 2014-06-05 02:58 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
And having this become a precedent harms you... how, exactly?

The obvious "fix" would be to specify when you prompt something that you are not interested in any fills where the characters are genderfluid or genderswapped. That's no different than saying "No slash, please," or "No het, please," and you do see that sort of thing fairly regularly in kinkmeme prompts.

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Date: 2014-06-06 06:15 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Rightly or wrongly, assumptions tend to be made if you ask for say OT3, that it will be m/m slash.

Some people don't like to specify what they don't want out of concern that it might appear they disagree with it or oppose it in some way.

I think some of the responsibility must reside with the author anon in this case, to ask if a prompter would be okay with what they have planned before they write it.

Date: 2014-06-06 06:33 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
"Some people don't like to specify what they don't want out of concern that it might appear they disagree with it or oppose it in some way."

Thanks for saying this, because I definitely feel this way. And I just really don't feel good about the idea if we were to start to see "No genderfluid!" or "No Transgender!" listed all over the place. That feels super ugly to me.

It's a different situation in some ways, but if someone wants to put the fill in say, a future AU, they usually ask or communicate about it. No harm in dialog.

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Fills for Screened Posts

Date: 2014-06-12 10:21 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I've done a fill for a post on the main thread that has subsequently been screened and not reposted anywhere. I didn't have the exact wording of the post saved, just the link to the post.

How can I let the OP know that the prompt has been filled, and how do I get the wording of the prompt?

Would it be possible for you as mod to repost the prompt into the non-warnings thread so it's then public and can be filled in the usual way?

It's a bit frustrating as it stands.

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Date: 2014-06-12 09:47 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Hi mods, unless I've missed a discussion somewhere, I'm confused as to why are there suddenly two fill posts.

Can't we just have ONE fill post and people put 'a free for all fill' if that's where the prompt came from?

Sorry but, whilst I understand the logic of having two different threads, I don't see why there should be an issue with posting the fills in the same place.

Date: 2014-06-12 10:22 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Echoing this comment and also asking why its requested that there should be warnings on fills on the free for all post? Surely the whole point of the free for all thread was to get away from the need for warnings, so having to put them in the free for all fill thread rather defeat what seemed to be the object of the exercise.

This whole warnings debate really does seem to be taking over this meme and driving people away.

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Duplicate Prompt

Date: 2014-06-15 02:30 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I think someone has just posted a duplicate of an earlier prompt... the wording is pretty much the same.

Old Prompt here: http://bbcmusketeerskink.dreamwidth.org/1213.html?thread=1469629#cmt1469629

New Prompt here: http://bbcmusketeerskink.dreamwidth.org/1213.html?thread=2059965#cmt2059965

Just wanted you to know so we don't get a heap of repeated prompts.

Date: 2014-07-04 10:15 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I accidentally posted on the anything goes post when I meant to post in the general post- it's the first prompt on the third page.

Date: 2014-07-09 07:29 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I appreciate that RL difficulties mean that threads can't be monitored 24/7, but it would be good to know if this meme is still being activively modded.

There are several unanswered questions on this thread now dating back a few weeks.

Is anyone still out there?

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Date: 2014-07-28 01:37 am (UTC)
king_arthurs_muse: (Arthur Lance last night)
From: [personal profile] king_arthurs_muse
Hi - I have looked for this question but didn't see it - do you want us to post exclusively anon or can we post with our user name? ETA: uh duh. I just saw the answer. Sorry about that!

Thank you!
Edited Date: 2014-07-28 01:39 am (UTC)

Date: 2014-08-07 04:10 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Hi Mod,

I know you're not meant to babysit the list, but could you maybe consider deleting this post --

http://bbcmusketeerskink.dreamwidth.org/1213.html?thread=2350781#cmt2350781

-- before the commentary on it gets out of hand?

Not that it will get out of hand but it has that potential.

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OP : link to my prompt (not deleted by mod, that was a comment)

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Date: 2014-08-17 01:43 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Is the delicious still being updated? Is there a way to flag fills for updating? Can we help out? I hate to see it fall behind :(

request for a comment to be screened

Date: 2014-09-04 08:12 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Hi,

I'm the author of this fill in round 2 of the kink meme:
http://bbcmusketeerskink.dreamwidth.org/1213.html?thread=2481597#cmt2481597

Reading back on what I've written, I think part three needs to contain a trigger warning for a reference to infant death. As I've posted anonymously I can't edit this comment myself, so would you be able to screen parts 3 and 4 so that I can repost with the appropriate warnings?

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Date: 2014-09-05 02:16 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I accidentally put a new prompt in round 2 after it closed - I've re-posted this to round three, but the comment in round 2 probably needs to be deleted. Thanks.
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